Fit in or stand out?

“Why do you try so hard to fit in when you were made to stand out?”

This quote turned up again, this time in my Plurk network. It strikes me in a sensitive place, as always.
I am different.
I have a hearing loss.

I wear two hearing aids.
And…

I teach.
I am educated.
I am articulate.
So which is it? In education we claim to value differences. However, I see more pressure to conform, pressure to follow the same path and be just like the others. We differentiate and adapt for our students, but not for each other.
Being a teacher and being different do not mesh well.
I may not always hear you perfectly, but when I know what you’ve said, I can address it and answer you in complete sentences. My hearing loss didn’t stop me from earning an undergraduate degree from a Conservatory of Music and a graduate degree in Curriculum and Instruction. I can write a research paper and quote the studies that support each point I make. I can write a letter that’s short and succinct and yet complete enough for the newspaper to publish. I can write a grant application that brings my class and my school much-needed money.
So which is it? Square peg or round hole? Fit in or stand out?
I still don’t know.

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>Spring, Summer, and good health

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Late spring and early summer are sometimes the hardest seasons for eating fresh and local. My freezer is emptying of last summer’s bounty, the Farmers’ Market hasn’t opened yet, it’s too early and too wet to plant, much less harvest, and we’re in the midst of time-consuming events that signal the end of the school year.
We’re hoping and planning to put up more of our own garden produce and local goodies from the Farmers’ Market as soon as local food comes into season. I’m preparing in several ways.
  • I picked up a food saver to replace my hand pump. I liked using the zipper bags for vegetables, but pumping the air out of each bag got tiring. Pushing a button and “zip!” sucking the air out will make it easier.
  • I’ve set aside good containers for freezing fresh fruits and fresh peppers. It’s so nice to reach into the freezer and pull out a jalapeno pepper from last fall’s garden instead of buying one from the store, a pepper probably imported over a great distance.
  • The tomato and pepper sections of our garden will be bigger and more varied. The family requested more salsa this year; last year’s stock only lasted until December. More salsa means more pulp tomatoes and more peppers.
  • We’ll continue to plant spinach; adding spinach to soups and stews and salads and omelets, to name a few, can increase or maintain a decent amount of iron in my diet.
  • Herbs! Seasoning with fresh herbs is tasty and helps us resist adding too much salt to our food. The chives are right outside the dining room door, making them easily accessible.
In the meantime, I can stock the kitchen with good foods made from scratch. I keep baking bread, adding flaxseed or local honey or other healthy additions to the recipe. The slow cookers (yes, plural, I have several) provide another method for easily cooking from scratch. It’s easier to keep meals low salt and low calorie when I have control over the ingredients.
When I don’t have time or energy to cook from scratch, it’s time to pull out something simple, yet healthy. Weight Watchers Smart Ones is making it easier to stay on track with a healthy meal plan without spending time on prep work beforehand. Their products provide a variety of delicious, convenient and portion controlled meals and snacks that contain lean proteins, whole grains, fruits, and vegetables. And now they are offering two new breakfast items – like the new Egg, Sausage & Cheese Wrap and the French Toast with Turkey Sausage. If you’re keeping track, the packaging tells you the Weight Watchers PointsPlus values in each serving, allowing you to conveniently plan for the day. Visit www.eatyourbest.com for more information.
I wrote this review while participating in a blog tour campaign by Mom Central Consulting on behalf of Weight Watchers Smart Ones and received a promotional item and coupons to facilitate my review.

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>What a difference a week makes

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On a cool but sunshiny day at the end of March, I dumped the pieces out of the box and put together my mini-greenhouse. My goal: to start more from seed this year, using the greenhouse structure to protect the small seedlings from evening frosts.

Then, about last Wednesday, Mother Nature had other ideas. She dumped (there’s no other word for it) she dumped more than 8 inches of heavy, wet snow on our house, our trees, and (you guessed it, readers) my new mini-greenhouse. If you can find it behind the lilac branches that are bent nearly double under the weight of the snow, my mini-greenhouse stands on our snow covered deck.

Picturesque, wasn’t it? Well, it was pretty enough if it had come in November. In late April, we’re about over the loveliness of this white stuff. We’d rather get out the garden spade than a snow shovel.
What a difference a week makes! Finally, finally, most of the snow is melted. My mini-greenhouse is full of pots, and many are poking little green shoots above the soil. No, don’t mention it, please – I know we’ve had snow in May some years. Shhhh.

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>Planned overs and Pantry Raids – Soup with Ham

>We made a large ham for Easter. Half of it served the family (our basic family of four and our parents) on Sunday night. The rest of this delicious smoked ham became leftovers – or planned overs, since we planned it that way. Chuck sliced some of the meat in sandwich- sized slices and cut up the rest, the awkward pieces, in smaller chunks for soup or stew. He left quite a bit on the bone.

That’s where Monday’s soup originated: the ham bone. Most of my soups are more raid than recipe; I have the basic broth and meat and then whatever vegetables are in the house at the time. If you’re a precise recipe person, this one is not for you. If you’re willing to play with the ingredients a bit, raid your pantry if needed, then it’s right up your alley.
I added the following to my four-quart slow cooker.
Ham bone with meat scraps still on (smoked on the grill the previous night, yum)
3-4 cups water (vegetable or pork soup stock would work, too)
1 small onion, diced
1 stalk of celery, diced
leftover bean mix from red beans and rice, served last Thursday
handful of fresh spinach, washed and torn into smaller pieces
1 can diced tomatoes
Simmer on low most of the day – 5 to 6 hours will do. Remove ham bone. Using a fork, remove ham from bone and shred into smaller, soup-worthy pieces. Return meat to pot.
Serve with fresh bread or rolls.
I had some extra fun (I’m such a science geek) with the bone. It was actually two bones, including a rotator joint. “Gee, honey, what part of the pig was this? The joint looked like a shoulder.” But anyway, back to the topic. I didn’t add spices or herbs; thyme might have been good. The beans were already spiced, so they added a little flavor of their own.
Soups and stews don’t have to be a precise recipe. My process often starts with thawing a container of soup stock from the freezer, adding onion and celery, and then searching the vegetable drawer for ingredients. Even though my last blood test showed that I’m no longer anemic, I’m still cooking iron-rich dishes. This soup had spinach and beans, both good sources of iron that are easily absorbed.
Like it? I named my experimental post-holiday soup Minestrone with Ham. We had generous portions last night, and a batch will go in the freezer for later – my next planned-overs.

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>Sprout or MacGonagall?

>I used to think I was most like Minerva McGonagall, head of Gryffindor House, instructor of transfiguration and all-around straightforward, logical Hogwarts professor.

Upon rereading the Harry Potter series, I’m starting to wonder. Maybe I’m more like Professor Sprout. She spends much of her time in the Hogwarts greenhouses; I like to “play in the dirt,” as my family says. Prof. Sprout always seems to have dirt on her somewhere; at this time of year, there’s always dirt under my nails or on my jeans or on my shirt. She wears a standard witch hat – almost. Her hat has a patch on it; mine is a baseball cap sporting the phrase “What happens in the garden stays in the garden.”
Professor Sprout’s favorite fertilizer is dragon dung. I’ll pass on that and use my own compost. I used used llama manure to make compost tea; it works quite well, and llamas don’t breathe fire.
Pomona Sprout is head of Hufflepuff House. Hufflepuff plays a supporting role in most of the books. While Gryffindor battles Slytherin for the House Cup and the Quidditch championship, Hufflepuff takes the “anyone but Slytherin” attitude, cheering on Gryffindor’s successes. I’m fine in supporting roles; actively supporting politicians is a hobby of mine. Running for office? Not interested.
Am I more Sprout than MacGonagall? She’s easier to spell, I’ll grant that. I think I’ll put a few seeds in pots and ponder this concept. Pass the dragon dung.

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Bunny Wisdom

This one has been traveling the Interwebs all day, and I couldn’t resist sharing. It’s not a Daisy original, but it’s good.

Everything I Needed to Know I learned from the Easter Bunny

Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.

Walk softly and carry a big carrot.

Everyone needs a friend who is all ears.

There’s no such thing as too much candy.

All work and no play can make you a basket case.

A cute little tail attracts a lot of attention.

Everyone is entitled to a bad hare day.

Let happy thoughts multiply like rabbits.

Some body parts should be floppy.

Keep your paws off other people’s jellybeans.

Good things come in small-sugar coated packages.

The grass is greener in someone else’s basket.

The best things in life are still sweet and gooey.

An Easter bonnet can cover the wildest hare.

“Shake?”

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>Light a Single Candle

>It is better to light a single candle than to sit and curse the darkness.

Attributed to Confucious, Eleanor Roosevelt, Old English Proverbs, no one really knows where the phrase began. Some insert a word, slightly changing its tone by saying “…sit and curse in the darkness.” Most are clear, however, as to its meaning.
To me, lighting a single candle means focusing on a goal, one goal, rather than giving up in an overwhelming world. In my world of clinical depression (and a sinus infection on top of it all), I feel like too many decisions are looming. I have too many candles. Can I cut down to one?
There’s school. I’m preparing for a new position next year. This is still uncertain; I’m working on Plan B while Plan A simmers.
There’s the book project. There’s resting, gathering energy, building strength.
The single candle doesn’t last if I burn it on both ends. Pushing too hard just gets me sicker and slows my recovery. Some days I don’t have a choice; I need to take a deep breath and go out in public to get the details of my job in place for next year. As long as I plan to rest the next day (or two), I can make it through an occasional tough day like that.
So really, what’s my single candle? Recovery? Recovering and taking care of myself is number one. When I’m ready for the next step, I’ll light the candle of Educating Amigo, our book project. While I’m working, the bunnies might just have to feed themselves. I’ll be very focused on my single flame.

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>ABC order – by adjective?

>I gather many recipes online. Some come from other blogs, some from recipe sites, some from email newsletters. I copy them into work documents and save to a file named “Recipes.” Ah, you guessed it; I don’t always change the name of the recipe, making it a challenge to find later. Just for fun (and for La Petite’s amusement), here are a few examples.

Under B for Baked:
Baked Crab Cakes
Baked Hush Puppies
Baked Zucchini and Tomatoes
Classic Baked Corn Pudding is actually filed under C for Classic.
Also under the letter C:
Country Swiss Chicken Thighs
Creamy Tomato Basil Pasta with Shrimp
Crispy and Creamy Potato Pie
Not one, but three recipes find a home under the letter E for – are you ready for this? – Easy. How about Fresh or Five Minute, both brought to you by the letter F? Those make the two Fruit Cocktail selections look almost logical. G is even with E: three Grilled something-or-others make the list just before Gumbo.
Remember my home made baked macaroni and cheese? It’s not listed under Baked or Macaroni or even Cheese. It’s under M, though – for My Mac and Cheese Bake. Yes, it is. That’s almost as nonsensical as Overnight (O) or Pull-apart (P). S has Simple, Savory and Special.
And for the last, La Petite’s favorite filing term: Q. Quick. Quick and Easy.
At least I only filed one under T for The.

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>Maple Oatmeal Muffins

>My entire family was home and awake Saturday morning. La Petite was up earlier than usual to babysit for her adorable cousin, Amigo was home from school and had no Forensics meet or sporting events, and both Chuck and I were up and at ’em. Having everyone here at once is a big enough deal that I baked. I love to bake, and I like cooking brunches, but we never seem to have the right occasion to celebrate with a brunch or breakfast. This time, I picked a muffin recipe to treat the entire family.

Whole wheat pastry flour has become my go-to for baked goods such as muffins. If you don’t have it, go ahead and use all-purpose flour. It’ll work just fine.
Ingredients for Maple Oatmeal Muffins
1 cup quick or old-fashioned oats
1/2 cup milk
1 cup whole wheat pastry flour (or all-purpose flour)
2 teaspoons baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
3/4 cup pure maple syrup
1/4 cup butter, melted
1 egg, beaten
1/2 cup chopped pecans
Directions for Maple-Oatmeal Muffins
1. Prepare muffin tin for 12 standard size muffins.
2. In a medium bowl, combine oats and milk. Set aside.
3. In a large mixing bowl, combine flour, baking powder, salt and cinnamon. Set aside.
4. Stir maple syrup, melted butter, and eggs into the oats mixture.
5. Add wet ingredients all at once to dry. Stir until just moist; batter may still be lumpy.
6. Add half of the chopped pecans.
7. Spoon batter into prepared muffin cups, filling about 2/3 full. Sprinkle with remaining nuts.
8. Bake in 400 degree oven for 15-18 minutes. Cool for ten minutes, if you can wait that long. Serve warm – with coffee, of course.
Daisy’s notes:
Use real syrup. The cheap kind in the plastic bottles? Forget it. Get real, pure, maple syrup. Look around; someone near you may have had a good maple sap season and have some to spare!
This recipe turned out slightly dry. Next time I might add a bit more milk or butter. It wasn’t a problem; everyone in the family ate them and pronounced the muffins “good.”
Raisins might work in these, too. What do you think?

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>Relapse, again

>It’s a marathon, not a sprint. It’s a long term commitment, this recovery from depression, because depression isn’t like the common cold or even influenza. It’s not like a sprain or a break that can be splinted and healed over time. Recovery from is slow but steady (remember the tortoise vs. the hare?) and may consist of two steps forward, one step back.

The times that are toughest are the times when I feel like I’m making one step forward, two steps back. Those are the days that the dark cloud hovers, never rises, never moves away. Harry Potter fans? It’s like a dementor undeterred by my patronus charm.
I felt improvement – I did! I felt like between the medicines, the rest, and the therapy, I was getting somewhere. In fact, I know I was. Feeling more energetic, getting excited about events in the world (Super Bowl!), and smiling and even laughing more often. Then suddenly and unexpectedly, I was back to square one. Two naps a day, difficulty waking up, pounding headaches, no motivation.
Doc tweaked the medicines slightly. Then he added another one. Next? Internal attitude adjustment. Personal effort. It’s my health, after all, and my responsibility. On that note, I made another therapy appointment. If only the effort didn’t take so much energy….

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