>Lister of lists

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I’m resisting making lists for our potential vacation this summer because there are still a couple of major variables, a couple of big questions without answers. For one, Husband doesn’t know if he can get the time off yet. For two, we don’t have our reservations yet. We’ll make the reservations as soon as Husband finds out if he can confirm the time off.
But in the meantime, since I’m not making lists, I’ll just think about which lists need to be made. That’s not too much, is it?

  • List of Potential Lists
    Things to do far ahead of time (includes passport applications, reservations, work schedules, etc.)
    Packing list (general)
    Packing list for the road (should I bring my coffee thermos or just my insulated travel mug?)
    Packing list for the ferry (most of the luggage will stay in the van, but it’s a five hour ferry ride)
    Groceries (What can we buy ahead, and can it be transported over a border?)
    Medicines (prescriptions and other important OTCs)
    Maps, atlases, and Map Quest printouts
    Laptop? We may have a new one by then, or the trip might use up the money budgeted for a new laptop
    Camera and charger and memory cards
    Cell Phones and chargers
    Toiletries: Amigo and Husband will actually have an easier time of this than I will. Maybe. Things to do nearer the trip, but before traveling (give the garden a last minute weeding, convert currency, make sure cell phones will work internationally if we stay on the North American continent)

I guess I’m already listing, although it’s not formal. I’ll either create a computer file or designate a spiral notebook to the cause. That way, Amigo and Husband can add to it as they think of things.
My family teases me about my compulsive list-making, but they always ask me to go over a verbal checklist before they leave on a trip of any kind. It’s okay that I”m already thinking ahead. Really.

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>spring fever

>I want to plant my garden. Unfortunately, it’s still snow-covered. After that stage, it’ll be a mud puddle for several weeks before I can even set foot in it to spread the compost and convince husband to run a rototiller through the ground.
That doesn’t stop me from thinking, though. Husband came home from the grocery store with a small squash, reminding me of his personal goal to eat more vegetables, and also reminding me that if he likes squash, we could plant more than zucchini this year.
I also found a great recipe for the crockpot that includes spinach — lots of spinach. I could grow that, too. There’s a nice little connection between the pet rabbits and my garden: if I grow too much, they’ll eat it. If I don’t grow enough for the humans to enjoy, the rabbits will still eat it. It’s a win-win. The parsley and the lettuce I grow primarily for them, even though I enjoy adding it to my own salads.
So I hinted to the Husband that he and the kids could make me happy on Mother’s Day by getting everything I need for the garden. I suppose I need to make a list, then. Lists R Us, here goes.
Tomatoes. Always. Big ones and little ones.
Peppers. Green bell peppers, red chili peppers. I wouldn’t turn down red or yellow peppers, either, if they’ll grow in our rather dense soil.
Broccoli or cauliflower. We’ll eat the “fruits” and the rabbits will eat the leaves and the stems.
Lettuce. Parsley. Spinach.
Stringless Pole Beans, green! And how about yellow bush beans to provide ground cover and give us the pleasure of Packer beans when the pre-season starts?
Zucchini. It seems like I either have feast or famine with this squash. We gave them away at our rummage sale in August, free with any purchase. People thought we were kidding until we handed them a squash on their way down the driveway.
Carrots. They don’t grow well in our thick soil, but the rabbits love the greens. Every time I thin them, the bunnybuns get a treat. To them, it’s like candy.
The green onions and chives will come up on their own. So will the rhubarb around the corner. The wild raspberries? The birds beat me to them last summer. Maybe I’ll have better luck this year.
All this makes it sound like we live in the country and have a huge yard. Nope. City house, less than a mile from downtown in our lovely small metropolis, with a small but decent backyard. Right now that backyard is covered with melting snow, and lots of it. I can glimpse the mud and brown grass at the edges, which means there is a growing season on the way.
I love our Wisconsin winters, but I’m really looking forward to spring.

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>Politics as usual — or not?

>I don’t live in New York.

That said, New York politicos often get a lot of press, even out here in the thawing and muddy midwest.
And the dark cloud over Eliot Spitzer has spawned a silver lining: David Paterson.
It’s exciting to see an African American take the leadership of an important state. To me, it’s even more exciting to see this talented and intelligent blind man take on this leadership role. Attention all nay-sayers and condescending sighted folk: Watch him in action. You’ll see his skills are not dependent on twenty-twenty vision, but intelligent thought and professional experience.
Apparently, if I’m reading between the lines correctly, he’s a large-print reader rather than Braille. I have no indication whether he uses a white cane for mobility or not. but the major message in his position is this: A blind person can be successful. Very successful. Hard work plus talent placed Paterson in the right place at the right time to take on a very challenging position. All indications are that he will handle the responsibilities well.

And as a hearing impaired adult and mother to a blind teenager, I send my congratulations. Please excuse me if I cheer loudly for a little while, too.

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>I look so great in that picture…oh, wait, it’s not me.

>But it could be me! It could be any one of the ten of us gutsy bloggers who contribute to Mid-Century Modern Moms. We take turns on weekdays, and any one of us with a keyboard and an idea can post on weekends. I have alternate Thursdays.
We’re excited because we now have a new home and new domain name. We’ll have a grand opening contest — with prizes — and we hope you’ll come back again to read us and read some more. With ten of us sharing our adventures in raising teens and young college kids, there will always be something interesting posted. Sometimes humorous, sometimes sad, sometimes simply venting our frustration that makes us want to croak, “for this I went through thirty hours of labor?!!” Several contributors are published authors, meaning you can expect high caliber writing.
But seriously, check it out. And please feel welcome to come back — many times.

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The picture is actually Margalit, her angelic teenaged twins, and her lovely cat.

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>Like you have spare time in your life — right. Uh-huh.

>Take a break anyway. That’s what I’m doing. I have too much on my to-do list, but I decided I’d earned a short mental health break and I’ll hit the blogs to relax my mind. Deep breath now —

Like prizes? Try these.
Win a lovely beaded bracelet.
Go to Scribbit for her weekly Saturday Giveaway.
Check out Mir’s latest contest with a gift card for Outback Steakhouse.

Take a survey for BlogHer. I did!

Sally forth and read the latest episode of Saffron Sally, a woman with spice. Er, I mean a well-seasoned woman. She gets updated regularly, too, in true serial style.

Check in on Mir’s latest advice and buy something. You know you want to.

Speaking of shopping, this is La Petite’s new favorite clothing store.

Read a book, join a discussion group at MotherTalk.

All this and coffee, too? Life must not be as bad as I thought.

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>Simplify? Easier said than done.

>Save, share, simplify. It’s a little like reduce, reuse, and recycle: it’s a good slogan, but it takes effort to put it into practice.
Our school holds a sale of used books to help fund their trip to camp. The books are donated, so the sale is 100% profit, and the kids and parents who buy are happy because the prices are low. It’s a win-win.
We swap DVDs with friends and family instead of renting. Yes, it means we buy our favorites (or receive them as gifts) in the first place, but we only buy movies we really like. The best part? No overdue fees.
The simplify piece is the hardest for me. I’ve been cleaning out rather than saving lately. Old books go to my classroom collection or to the school sale. Children’s toys went into the rummage sale last August, and since then more have gone to Goodwill and the thrift store.
Lack of storage space gives us trouble when saving. Our aging Victorian home was built with few closets. We’ve added a linen closet and revamped our own bedroom closet spaces. We tuck a few things in the attic, but it’s not very big, either.
So I might look into the new Zwaggle, a site for parents who want to do their share to give back, both to the environment and to others. My question will be: are there other families with teens, especially disabled teens? I’ll be looking for Braille items this time around or a source that would like some of the Braille books Amigo has finished. They’re too good to throw away, but they take up enormous amounts of space that we just don’t have.

This blog blast suggested by Parent Bloggers Network and Zwaggle. New members who sign up through the invitation link (above) will get extra Zoinks, or Zwaggle points.

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>Things to do when the teen is sick

>Read his cues.
How are you?
I don’t know. A little better.
Do you want to go to school?
Maybe. I don’t know.
(after breakfast of toast with jelly)
I feel weak and shaky.
Okay, I think you need to stay home.
He slept on the couch from 6:30 until 9:30 AM. He wanted to stay home, but wasn’t sure how to say it.

Make jello.
His stomach is feeling better, now he needs to fill it with safe foods that won’t irritate him and set him back to square one.

Work on schoolwork and other home projects while he sleeps.
He doesn’t really need me; he just needs the security of not being home alone.
I wrote a rough draft of a grant application, made jello, and drank half a pot of coffee while he was asleep. Still on my list: correct two stacks of papers, thaw something bland but tasty for supper, brainstorm a few fun blog posts just for fun.

Watch daytime TV.
Even in summertime, we don’t do this together very often. Today we watched The Price is Right and enjoyed seeing people get excited and jump up and down and win fabulous prizes while we snuggled up on the couch and drank coffee (me) and sprite (Amigo).

Chop ice on the driveway.
Well, any ice I chop will melt faster.
I only chopped a little because A.) it’s not really that warm out, and B.) I don’t want to reinjure my wrist or back. A little goes a long way.

Email his doctor about a related issue.
His acne medication can upset his stomach.
She agreed that he could stop taking it until he’s back to full strength because it could cause a relapse.

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>I’m not distractible, I can focus — look! a chicken!

>Remember when I tallied a few of my report card comments and found these coming up frequently?
Easily distracted
Impulsive
Excess talking, needs better self-control
— and more like those?

Today I was reminded that I must, must talk with several parents about distractibility and the potential for medical intervention. If the child has a medical reason for restlessness and lack of control, it’s a whole different world from the child who chooses to act out.

The clocks were being reset semi-manually, from a remote controller in the school office. The kids pointed. “Look, it’s wrong!” “I know, kiddos, I have my watch on. I’ll take care of timing today.” “Look, it’s moving!” Sure enough, the clock was ticking, ticking, ticking along. But instead of seconds going by, the minute hand was moving steadily through its circles. Oh, I was so mean to insist they keep practicing their keyboarding skills on the computer when something so exciting was happening to the clock!!
One of the computers in my classroom pod was stuck in an endless loop of its boot-up cycle. I turned it off and called helpdesk. I had to: the kids were staring at it as it went through its cycle over and over and over and over again. I couldn’t imagine this being so entertaining, but I guess it was better than math class.
7 times 4 is — look! A spider! The girl nearest the spider panicked, turned so flushed I thought she’d throw up. Five – brave souls came running up to stomp it, followed by their best friends not wanting to miss anything. Solution? I picked it up and let it loose in the hallway to terrorize the girls’ bathroom across the hall.
Poor Charlotte. She never gets any respect. I know how she feels.

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>Darn, I need a new purse.

>I bought a new purse during a big sale at Gordman’s last fall. I enjoyed using it until recently, when the braided straps decided to unravel and snap. I’m carrying it under my arm, kind of like a clutch that’s too big, afraid the one last strap will give way and everything will spill all over. Silly thought, that is: it has zippers that keep all the important things safe inside.
The big dilemma: do I need a new one?
I have a few old bags (oops, that was a poor turn of phrase) in my closet. I can use one for a while, even for a permanent replacement. Then there’s the trip we might take this summer. So should I buy a new purse, and if so, what are the main features I should look for?
I like the little cell phone pocket on my current strapless model.
I like the zippers.
The pockets are big enough to hold anything I need. In fact, this purse is actually a little bigger than I need.
I need more than pocketbook size. Any bag of mine needs to hold my cell phone, my wallet (checkbook size), my cardholder (store cards and insurance, etc.), inhaler, reading glasses with case, my school ID smart card, hearing aid batteries, and my keys. I also like to carry a small pack of mints, a bottle of Tylenol, small notebook, pen, Tide to Go pen, hand sanitizer or wet wipes, a comb, and lip gloss. For a brief time this summer, I’ll carry my passport, too.
At least I’m not in the market for a diaper bag!

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>What a difference a year makes

>I woke up Friday morning and didn’t feel the dread that used to envelop me after a difficult day. What was the difference? Location, location, location.
School personnel talk about building climate, and we don’t mean the heating and cooling systems. The current climate in my building is one of support and collaboration. My rough day was shared by others, and we got together to take positive action for change. Those changes were for kids, and we teachers were simply the means to the child-friendly end. Exhausting, yes, it was. I faded quickly after supper and didn’t even do my homework. Shhh…don’t tell my class!!
Now — yesterday, I woke up and went through my morning routine not whistling a happy tune, but at least looking forward to the day ahead. When I got to school, I had to let the bread supplier in the building. Poor guy was out there standing at the locked door in below-zero wind chill. Then I loaded two reams of paper into the copier as long as I was waiting for it to warm up. As I left the copy room through the cafeteria, a young girl had arrived at school much too early, so the chief cook and bottlewasher (don’t call her a lunch lady!) invited the girl to help set up for breakfast. It’s considered a privilege to Work Lunch or Breakfast, so this girl was smiling and feeling important.
Later that morning, the principal came zooming by and closed a few strategically located doors, letting us know that we should be prepared to secure the building if need be. I hurried my kids out of the gym and to the room, and they cooperated (for a change). Fortunately, the threat never became real, but I was relieved to know that my bouncy, trouncy, flouncy, bouncy bunch could handle a quick change like this without falling apart.
There were more issues and incidents throughout the day. It wouldn’t be teaching if a few memories weren’t created each day! But in the big picture, while I didn’t forget the difficult Thursday, I didn’t need to move to Australia, either.

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